Being alive for 22 years and being a woman I think it’s safe to say that I have a little bit of knowledge regarding girls/ladies and some of their behavioral patterns. As a psychology student I find myself observing a lot and kind of making mental notes on some of the behaviors I’ve seen.
Here’s just a few of those behaviors and why I hate them so much.
**Note: this is not a personal attack towards anybody nor is it directed to anybody in particular. They’re merely my thoughts/opinions.
1. Girls, seriously need to chill out with their revealing photos. It’s not classy ladies, it’s more along the lines of trashy and desperate. Let me tell you something, when you put up a picture of yourself wearing almost close to nothing and your boobs/ass popping out then you’re going to get attention alright, but negative attention.
(Sidenote: No matter how much a girl tries to act as if she only wants a short term/uncommitted/laid back relationship, it’s BULL SHIT. EVERY GIRL, and i mean EVERY chick wants a guy who likes her for her and is generous (that’s not even getting into the marriage criteria).
The kind of attention you’re going to get when you put up pictures with your boobs about to pop out and your ass all over the place is the ‘I’D TAP THAT’ or ‘I’d have sex with her but would never see myself with her’ type attention. Do you really want that? Guys are guys, you can’t blame them-they’re going to always dick around with chicks who seem to be an easy target but at the end of the day they’re going to want to marry someone they can actually be with and talk to not just have sex with. **sidenote: when you put up skanky/slutty pictures then that kind of tells the world that you’re easy**
2. Where the hell has all the elegance and class gone? What has ever happened to ladies being classy not whores? You can still very much be sexy yet classy/sophisticated at the same time. Being trashy is not sexy ladies-it’s just…trashy and makes you seem desperate. Boost up your self-esteem and realize that sleeping with a bunch of guys should not be what you need to feel attractive/sexy. What you really need is to improve on your self-esteem and realize that it’s not always about what’s on the outside but rather what’s on the inside.
I’ve seen loads of beautiful women who have a great figure and super pretty but guys look at them and just think of how much they’d want to dick around with her because they know that even though they’re pretty on the outside they’re not that great of a person. If you’re beautiful on the inside then sure enough you’ll be just as radiant on the outside. (If a guy can’t see your true beauty for who you are, then you’re wasting your time with the wrong man..move on)
3. Instead of being vicious bitches towards each other, we should really be sticking together. Women suffer a lot in this world (not to sound like a feminist) but seriously, women are in danger of sexual assault, rape, sexual abuse etc etc. We should be helping each other out but instead we’re too busy being drama queens about such small issues. What is the big deal if some girl wears the same dress as you or gets the same hair cut as you a week later? BIG FUCKING DEAL—
Rumors are nasty little things-girls need to stop spreading rumors about other girls just because they’re:
b) hate them
c) pissed because their boyfriend or ex has feelings for them
d) all of which equal JEALOUSY
This really just shows that you’re too bored with your own life and are lame enough to butt into others and try to ruin it. Get over yourselves and do something with your life.
Now ladies, I’ve done quite a bit of bickering but it does not even come close to how much I have left to go on about. The point is, don’t try to become something you’re not for the wrong reasons. It’s possible that I may be wrong in some instances but could be that I am also right at the same time. Again, do not take this as a personal attack towards you but rather just an insight to how I see other women.